solid
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Registered: Aug 28, 2006
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| March 03, 2009 at 10:41 PM |
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Reply with quote | #1 | But I want one who is STRONG! And can handle the anointing that God has given me. Just by conversation and observance...there seems to be a lack of men who can respect a woman who is in ministry AND respect the call, especially if the woman is on a different level than they are. I'm talking about Christian men! Is it possible for Believers to be unequally yoked as well? There has been a Christian man that I have been talking to for almost a year now, he is anointed and when he prays for me...I feel covered. Yet, everytime I go forth with a Word or message from God on my Blogtalk broadcast, or tell him about a dream or vision to get his input, or share anything with him concerning my walk, he gets jealous or says something to try to downplay the anointing; but when he speaks...I listen to him as he has alot of wisdom and knows that Bible. There was something that I have been trying to tell him for a while, and he shunned it coming from me; but when he found out that it was true on his own...he then told me that I was "just a voice crying out in the wilderness". In other words, "nobody is going to hear you, so you're pointless, or you may as well stop."
So it does not take a rocket scientist to know that this man is not for me...even though I feel covered when he prays for me as if he "could be" my husband and covering; he is anointed and a Believer....BUT we are still unequally yoked because we don't have the same vision.
Soooo, here we go again, back to square one...just wait on the Lord. Hallelujah!
All I want is a STRONG man, (he has to be) in order to not feel intimidated by the anointing. This is not bragging, it is truth. I have the call of an apostle on my life, most men don't like that....so then what?
Apostle Juanita, have you gone through this? I am almost completely ready for a husband, I want that covering, I want to submit to him...but how many of you know that in order to submit there must FIRST be respect. Nobody can submit to someone they don't respect. Submission comes automatically to someone you love AND respect. This is why the Bible says, wives RESPECT your husbands and husbands LOVE your wives.
Ephesians 5:33 (NKJV) Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband. Ephesians 5:33 (KJV) 33Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
God knew that love and respect go together. It takes both to be able to submit.
Well, I could write a book on this if I keep going, so let me stop....just needed to vent.
Any thoughts?
__________________ 2 Corinthians 11:2
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4everblesed Moderator
Registered: Oct 27, 2006
Posts: 702
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| March 04, 2009 at 12:41 PM |
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Reply with quote | #2 | Solid, Do you not realize that there is a spirit of jealousy in the body of Christ. This man has that spirit. This spirit is hendering him and it will also hender you. He needs to be delivered. Once he is delivered he will understand the call on your life as well as his, also he will respect it. God bless woman of God. |
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